Transparency

I’ve heard most of my ministry life that familiarity breeds contempt. I’ve worked for and ministered with Sr. Pastors who held their members at arms length so they wouldn’t be “too” close with their people. I’ve learned that’s stupid. Be who you are and don’t try to be something or someone you’re not.

I quote this one college professor a lot because he is a very good teacher and has good quotes. When taking his Old Testament I and II classes, he would say, “Let’s put flesh and blood on these people.” The people that are in the Bible were just that, people. They weren’t any more holy than the other people; God just chose to use them. If you look closely, you’ll see all their faults.

Let’s face it, preachers aren’t perfect nor should we try to appear as perfect. Pastors put their pants on one leg at a time like everyone else. We succeed and fail like everyone else. I’m working with a guy who doesn’t even try not to be himself. His philosophy is I’m who I am, take me or leave me. He’s right on with this attitude and his members appreciate him for it. To me being transparency has helped my ministry with men. I share where I’ve failed and where I’ve succeeded, and some of my personal challenges. To disciple people is walking with them in their journey. We are all on the same road. We can use what we’ve learned to help others.

It’s alright to allow people to get to know you. God can use our transparency to minister to our people. I have examples of where me being transparent has help people wrestle with things in their lives and overcome them. Don’t be afraid to open up.